by Wiebke Neberich & Daniel Kupke 2012-04-02 | 06:00 PM
Comments 0

Barkeeper or Haircutter: Who helps with lovesickness?

What do we do when long lasting love finally fades leaving a bunch of shared memories, acquired habits and several cute little stuffed animals? Apparantly, it is a question of what country you live in. In some countries more people handle lovesickness with alcohol than they do in other countries - and in one country men go to get a hair cut. Find out more about these and other facts...

more...

by Daniel Kupke 2012-03-07 | 05:00 PM
Comments 0

The Chasing Game – Men are still Hunters!

Men are the hunters, women want to google - Why we differ in our approaching strategies

Who do you think is more direct in approaching a crush? A man or a woman? You would say that women stereotypically want to be found instead of going hunting on their own?
Read more and find out why men and women differ in their ways of approaching when they have an eye on someone. You'll be surprised how far back into our past one has to go for an explanation...

more...

by Daniel Kupke 2012-03-07 | 04:29 PM
Comments 0

The Science behind Speed-Hating

If you were ever wondering about the plethora of different dating events and what might be their newest sibling, here is a new form of coupling that might very well be the most invidious of them all. 

We call it Speed-Hating!

Read more about what makes it different from speed-dating and gain some insights into why it could be more successful in finding you a match.

more...

by Wiebke Neberich 2012-03-06 | 12:46 PM
Comments 0

Can a dog serve as a flirt tool?

It depends on the breed you own…
Imagine you are sitting alone on a bench in the park. It is a sunny day and the birds are singing. You take a look at the right and – WHOW! A very attractive person will soon pass by. As you are single, you are definitively curious about how the person might be like and willing to start a conversation. Sadly enough you are a shy person and the chances that the beautiful stranger will take the first step and speak to you are rather small.
Now, bring the same situation in mind, but add one further point – on your lap, there is sitting a cute puppy, pointing his large eyes into the direction of the other person. Adding this “variable” will surely have some influence on the outcome of the situation. But does it matter if you are a man or a woman, or if you are holding a Boxer or a Chihuahua? Addressing these and more questions, we set up a questionnaire and got some interesting results…
 

more...

by Wiebke Neberich 2011-11-04 | 01:17 AM
Comments 0

Dogs, Cats and Relationships

"Dogs come when they're called; cats take a message and (maybe) get back to you later" (Bly, 1998)

This claim like many of the jokes about dogs and cats reflect the differences we perceive in these pets' personalities. They have different needs, show different behaviors, and have a different kind of relationship with their owners as well.  No wonder that some people have a clear preference for one species or the other. Some people even label themselves as either a "dog person" or a "cat person" (Woodward & Bauer, 2007), implicating that they might rather identify themselves with a personality that is prototypical for a specific species. Thus, when it comes to pets are people intuitively looking for their specific personality match?

Read more about dog's and cat's personalities and possible implications for successful dating...

 

more...

by Wiebke Neberich 2011-09-29 | 11:54 AM
Comments 0

Are Religious People Particularly Psychologically Healthy? It depends on the Country they live in…

Religiosity and psychological health: A comparison across 11 cultures

Are religious people psychologically healthier or unhealthier than their non-religious counterparts?
Sigmund Freud, called religiosity the neurosis of the masses. This implies that religious people may be psychologically unhealthier than their non-religious counterparts. In stark contrast to this position, hundreds of studies appeared in the last few years and they found that religious people report better psychological health, less depression, and more life satisfaction than non-religious people.

We compared psychological health reports of believers and non-believers across 11 cultures...

more...

by Wiebke Neberich 2011-06-17 | 05:52 PM
Comments 0

Men’s Courtship Tactics: Perspectives of Women and Men

You are invited to participate in our new study!

Study Description:
In most cultures, men are seen as the more active part in approaching women. That’s why they should have evolved a set of “tactics” that should build up attraction. We are interested in these male courtship behaviors and want to assess women’s and men’s perspectives on these. Also, we think that personality might influence how we perceive courtship behavior and behave in situations where we are attracted to someone.

This study takes approximately 10 minutes of your time and you will obtain personal feedback on some very interesting personality variables (e.g., self-esteem, socio-sexuality).

 

more...

by Wiebke Neberich 2011-06-09 | 02:24 PM
Comments 0

Rejected Kevin! Stigmatized Names are Related to Dating Failure and Interpersonal Neglect

 

“I have a horrible, horrible name…

this name has been holding me back my entire life.

It's probably why kids picked on me in school

and why I never do well with women.”

(Chandler Bing, a character from the sitcom Friends (Bright, 2003))

 

When it comes to online-dating does our name predict how successful we are in getting attention from potential partners? In other words, does our name have a unique influence on our dating success? And if so, does this kind of attention versus neglect on the online-dating site mirror a life history of interpersonal neglect that is detrimental to own personal development?

We explored these questions based on a sample of more than 900 German-speaking eDarling members (from Austria, Germany, Switzerland).

more...

by Wiebke Neberich 2011-04-05 | 07:28 PM
Comments 0

Do Single Women Outperform Single Men in Self-Esteem and General Well-Being?

Recently, eHarmony Labs and the Oxford Internet Institute conducted a study on romantic relationships. Results revealed that across all examined countries male partners outperformed female partners in relationship satisfaction and general relationship well-being. Furthermore, empirical research shows that a happy relationship increases psychological and physical health particularly for men.

Building on these results, we wondered: Do we find the same pattern among singles?  That is, are single men better off than single women?

Results based on the eDarling dataset with 20,000 participants are presented and discussed in terms of underlying processes that might explain gender differences in well-being among singles.

more...

by Wiebke Neberich 2011-03-28 | 11:39 AM
Comments 0

Singles on the Rise! Bitter Reality or Urban Myth?

A couple of years ago The New York Times wrote "THE news that 51 percent of all women live without a spouse might be enough to make you invest in cat futures." Messages like "More and more singles..." flooded the press in the recent past and forecasted an alarming trend towards a "Single society". This implicates singeldom to be the new self-chosen and aspired lifestyle. Thereby, singles are often made responsible for many societal grievances.

This impertinence is yet enhanced by articles in women's magazines that criticize modern women's attitudes. Comments like "Modern women are too discriminating and therefore responsible for their single-status" not only implicate the state of singeldom being pitiable, they also implicate women to be egoistic and selfish.

So, what is going on? Is the increase in singles our reality - or just a snapped up urban myth?  Has the meaning and form of romantic relationships changed in the past two decades? Should women become more decent to finally find a husband?

more...